sounds like clutch, but doesnt sound like you need to rush to change it.
options i have come across are; puma 210mm (puma and frp), uprated helix 210mm (very hard to press as theyv only uprated the spring pressures), st150 (of which diameter i do not know)(quite hard to press down i have heard)
or my favourite; a 220mm focus clutch; bigger external diameter and also smaller internal; you get A LOT more surface area, which also means its got stronger grip without making the springs harder; ie its not harder to press down! in fact its slightly easier than a standard puma clutch!!!. its technically not rated for the power of the frp but it easily copes, i blast through a puma clutch in a year and this is older than 2 years with no issues! i drive hard and its lasted! everyone who has tried it also likes it so i highly recommend. bonus also is that its not a 'performance' clutch so its dirt cheap!
another obscure option; ap racing (the daddies of the clutch world- supply all f1 cars) will do a friction plate but not a pressure plate (but you can send them a pressure plate and they will rebuild it to their spec)